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-====== tǐtiē: 体贴 - Thoughtful, Considerate, Attentive ====== +
-===== Quick Summary ===== +
-  * **Keywords:** tǐtiē, 体贴, thoughtful in Chinese, considerate Chinese meaning, attentive to someone's needs, what is titie, 体贴 meaning, Chinese relationships, Chinese dating culture, how to be considerate in Chinese. +
-  * **Summary:** 体贴 (tǐtiē) is a fundamental Chinese term describing a person who is exceptionally thoughtful, considerate, and attentive to the needs of others. More than just being nice, to be 体贴 is to proactively anticipate and meet someone's physical and emotional needs, often through small, caring actions. This quality is highly valued in Chinese culture, especially in romantic relationships and family life, and understanding what "tǐtiē" means is key to navigating personal connections in China. +
-===== Core Meaning ===== +
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** tǐtiē +
-  * **Part of Speech:** Adjective; Verb +
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 4 +
-  * **Concise Definition:** To be considerate and attentive to another person's needs and feelings, demonstrated through proactive, thoughtful actions. +
-  * **In a Nutshell:** Imagine a friend who brings you a hot cup of tea on a cold day *before* you even mention you're chilly. That is the essence of 体贴. It’s not just thinking nice thoughts; it's about actively observing others, anticipating their unspoken needs, and doing something small to make them more comfortable or happy. It’s empathy in action. +
-===== Character Breakdown ===== +
-  * **体 (tǐ):** Body, form, shape. Here, it refers to a person's physical being and by extension, their personal state. +
-  * **贴 (tiē):** To stick, to paste, to keep close to. +
-  * The combination of "body" and "stick close" creates a powerful metaphor. To be 体贴 means to be metaphorically "stuck to" someone's body—so close that you can sense their feelings, their comfort, and their needs as if they were your own. It implies a deep level of intimacy and observation. +
-===== Cultural Context and Significance ===== +
-  * In Chinese culture, 体贴 is a paramount virtue in close relationships. It is a tangible expression of care that helps maintain harmony (和谐, héxié), a core societal value. While Western culture might praise grand romantic gestures, traditional Chinese culture often places a higher value on the consistent, quiet, and practical demonstrations of care that 体贴 represents. +
-  * **Comparison to "Thoughtful":** In English, "thoughtful" can be abstract. You can be a "thoughtful person" by nature. 体贴, however, is almost always tied to specific actions. A person is considered 体贴 //because// of what they do. For example, a Western partner might be "thoughtful" for remembering an anniversary. A Chinese partner is 体贴 for noticing you're tired and doing the dishes without being asked, or bringing you a jacket when the temperature drops. It's about the //proactive micro-management of a loved one's comfort//. This is a highly sought-after quality in a partner, often seen as more important than passion or wealth. +
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China ===== +
-  * **Dating and Marriage:** This is the most common context for 体贴. It is one of the highest compliments one can pay to a partner. Men who perform small acts of care—like carrying their girlfriend's purse, peeling fruit for her, or making sure she has hot water to drink—are praised as being very 体贴. A popular modern term, [[暖男]] (nuǎnnán), or "warm man," describes a man whose primary appeal is how 体贴 he is. +
-  * **Family:** Children are often taught to be 体贴 towards their parents and elders. This can manifest as pouring tea for them, giving them the best pieces of food, or helping with chores without prompting. +
-  * **Service:** While less common, exceptional service can be described as 体贴. For example, a flight attendant who notices a passenger is cold and brings them a blanket without being asked is being 体贴. +
-===== Example Sentences ===== +
-  * **Example 1:**  +
-    * 我的男朋友非常**体贴**，总是记得我喜欢喝什么。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ de nánpéngyou fēicháng **tǐtiē**, zǒngshì jìde wǒ xǐhuān hē shénme. +
-    * English: My boyfriend is very considerate; he always remembers what I like to drink. +
-    * Analysis: A classic example used in a romantic context. The speaker is praising her boyfriend for a specific, small act of remembrance that shows his attentiveness. +
-  * **Example 2:**  +
-    * 他病了，你要多**体贴**他一下。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā bìng le, nǐ yào duō **tǐtiē** tā yīxià. +
-    * English: He's sick, you need to be a bit more considerate of him. +
-    * Analysis: Here, 体贴 is used as a verb, functioning as a piece of advice. It implies taking extra care through actions (e.g., making food, ensuring he's comfortable). +
-  * **Example 3:**  +
-    * 谢谢你的**体贴**，这杯热水正是我需要的。 +
-    * Pinyin: Xièxie nǐ de **tǐtiē**, zhè bēi rè shuǐ zhèng shì wǒ xūyào de. +
-    * English: Thank you for your thoughtfulness, this cup of hot water is exactly what I needed. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence directly thanks someone for a specific 体贴 action. Note the common cultural theme of offering hot water as a form of care. +
-  * **Example 4:**  +
-    * 找一个**体贴**的丈夫比找一个有钱的更重要。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zhǎo yīgè **tǐtiē** de zhàngfu bǐ zhǎo yīgè yǒuqián de gèng zhòngyào. +
-    * English: Finding a considerate husband is more important than finding a rich one. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence expresses a common value judgment in Chinese culture, highlighting the importance of this trait in a life partner. +
-  * **Example 5:**  +
-    * 她是个很**体贴**的女儿，总是把父母照顾得很好。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā shì gè hěn **tǐtiē** de nǚ'ér, zǒngshì bǎ fùmǔ zhàogù de hěn hǎo. +
-    * English: She is a very considerate daughter, always taking great care of her parents. +
-    * Analysis: This shows the term used in a family context, linking the adjective 体贴 with the verb 照顾 (zhàogù - to take care of). +
-  * **Example 6:**  +
-    * 你怎么这么不**体贴**？我都说了我头疼！ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ zěnme zhème bù **tǐtiē**? Wǒ dōu shuō le wǒ tóuténg! +
-    * English: How can you be so inconsiderate? I already told you I have a headache! +
-    * Analysis: This shows the negative form, 不体贴 (bù tǐtiē). It's an accusation that someone is failing to act on another's stated discomfort. +
-  * **Example 7:**  +
-    * 这家酒店的服务非常**体贴**周到。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zhè jiā jiǔdiàn de fúwù fēicháng **tǐtiē** zhōudào. +
-    * English: The service at this hotel is extremely thoughtful and attentive. +
-    * Analysis: Here, 体贴 is paired with [[周到]] (zhōudào - thorough) to give a complete sense of excellent, personalized service. +
-  * **Example 8:**  +
-    * 他**体贴**地为我披上了他的外套。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā **tǐtiē** de wèi wǒ pī shàng le tā de wàitào. +
-    * English: He thoughtfully draped his coat over my shoulders. +
-    * Analysis: The structure "体贴地 (tǐtiē de) + Verb" is a common way to describe a specific considerate action. +
-  * **Example 9:**  +
-    * 一个人的**体贴**展现在生活的细节里。 +
-    * Pinyin: Yīgè rén de **tǐtiē** zhǎnxiàn zài shēnghuó de xìjié lǐ. +
-    * English: A person's consideration is revealed in the details of everyday life. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence captures the philosophical core of the word—it's about the small things, not grand gestures. +
-  * **Example 10:**  +
-    * 他是不是一个**体贴**的人，要看他怎么对待你。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā shì bùshì yīgè **tǐtiē** de rén, yào kàn tā zěnme duìdài nǐ. +
-    * English: Whether or not he is a considerate person depends on how he treats you. +
-    * Analysis: This emphasizes that 体贴 is not an inherent personality trait but something demonstrated and judged through interaction. +
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes ===== +
-  * **体贴 (tǐtiē) vs. 关心 (guānxīn):** This is the most critical distinction for learners. +
-    * `关心 (guānxīn)` means "to be concerned about" or "to care for." It's the //feeling// of care. You can 关心 someone from far away by thinking about them. +
-    * `体贴 (tǐtiē)` is the //action// of care. It's the practical application of 关心. +
-    * **Example:** Your friend is sick. You text them, "I'm thinking of you!" (你在关心她 - You are caring for her). You show up at their door with soup and medicine (你很体贴 - You are being considerate). +
-  * **体贴 (tǐtiē) vs. 周到 (zhōudào):** +
-    * `周到 (zhōudào)` means "thorough" or "attentive to every detail." It's often used in professional, logistical, or hosting contexts. It's about being comprehensive and not missing anything. +
-    * `体贴 (tǐtiē)` is personal and emotional. It focuses on feelings and comfort. +
-    * **Example:** An event planner who arranges transportation, food, and activities for everyone is `周到`. A friend who notices you look uncomfortable at the event and quietly asks if you want to leave is `体贴`. +
-  * **Common Mistake:** Do not use 体贴 to describe objects or plans. It is reserved for people's actions toward other people. +
-    * **Incorrect:** 这个计划很体贴。 (Zhège jìhuà hěn tǐtiē.) - The plan is very considerate. +
-    * **Correct:** 这个计划很周到。 (Zhège jìhuà hěn zhōudào.) - The plan is very thorough. +
-===== Related Terms and Concepts ===== +
-  * [[关心]] (guānxīn) - The general feeling of "caring about" someone, which is a prerequisite for being 体贴. +
-  * [[照顾]] (zhàogù) - To take care of; to look after. More focused on physical needs and responsibility (like for a child or a patient). +
-  * [[温柔]] (wēnróu) - Gentle; soft. A personality trait often possessed by a 体贴 person, but describes demeanor rather than action. +
-  * [[周到]] (zhōudào) - Thorough; attentive to detail. A synonym that is less emotional and more focused on completeness, often used in service or professional contexts. +
-  * [[暖男]] (nuǎnnán) - "Warm man." A modern slang term for a man who is exceptionally kind, caring, and 体贴, especially in a romantic context. +
-  * [[不体贴]] (bù tǐtiē) - The direct antonym: inconsiderate, thoughtless. +
-  * [[关怀]] (guānhuái) - To show care and solicitude for. More formal than 关心 and often used by a superior to a subordinate, an elder to a junior, or in the context of social welfare. +
-  * [[理解]] (lǐjiě) - To understand. One must first understand someone's situation or feelings to be able to act in a 体贴 manner.+