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-====== tīng tiān yóu mìng: 听天由命 - Resign oneself to fate, Leave it to heaven ====== +
-===== Quick Summary ===== +
-  * **Keywords:** 听天由命, ting tian you ming, tingtianyouming, resign oneself to fate, leave it to heaven, let nature take its course, what will be will be, Chinese idiom for fate, fatalism, Chinese philosophy, Daoism and fate. +
-  * **Summary:** The Chinese idiom **听天由命 (tīng tiān yóu mìng)** describes a state of resigning oneself to fate after all possible effort has been made. It means to "listen to heaven and accept one's destiny," capturing a profound cultural perspective on the limits of human control. Whether viewed as wise acceptance or passive resignation, understanding this term offers deep insight into Chinese philosophy and how people cope with uncertainty. +
-===== Core Meaning ===== +
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** tīng tiān yóu mìng +
-  * **Part of Speech:** Chengyu (成语) / Idiom +
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 6 / Advanced +
-  * **Concise Definition:** To entrust one's fate to Heaven; to accept what will be, will be. +
-  * **In a Nutshell:** Imagine you've studied for months for a huge exam, you've done every practice test, and you've just handed in your paper. There is absolutely nothing more you can do. That feeling of letting go and accepting the outcome, whatever it may be, is the core of 听天由命. It's a recognition that some things are simply out of your hands and are up to fate, destiny, or "Heaven." +
-===== Character Breakdown ===== +
-  * **听 (tīng):** To listen, to hear; in this context, it implies obedience or heeding. +
-  * **天 (tiān):** Sky, day; here it means "Heaven" as a cosmic, ordering force or nature itself, not a specific deity. +
-  * **由 (yóu):** From, by, up to (someone); it indicates agency or cause. "Up to Heaven." +
-  * **命 (mìng):** Life, destiny, fate. +
-When combined, 听天由命 literally translates to "Listen to Heaven and let it be according to fate." The characters paint a clear picture of a person ceasing their struggle and turning their attention upward, yielding control to a power greater than themselves. +
-===== Cultural Context and Significance ===== +
-This idiom is deeply rooted in Chinese philosophical traditions, particularly Daoism (Taoism) and Buddhism. +
-It reflects the Daoist concept of **无为 (wúwéi)**, which doesn't mean doing nothing, but rather "effortless action" or acting in harmony with the natural flow of the universe (the Dao). After you have acted in accordance with your role, you must then step back and let the Dao unfold. 听天由命 is the final step in that process. +
-Similarly, it resonates with Buddhist ideas of karma (因果, yīnguǒ) and the acceptance of one's predetermined path. It's a recognition of a cosmic balance and order that is beyond individual influence. +
-**Comparison to Western Concepts:** A close Western parallel is the "Serenity Prayer": //"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."// +
-The key difference lies in the emphasis. The Serenity Prayer is an active plea for wisdom and courage. **听天由命** is more of a concluding statement of acceptance. It often comes *after* one has tried to change things and realized they cannot. It can carry a more passive and sometimes somber tone of resignation, whereas the Serenity Prayer frames acceptance as a serene virtue. +
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China ===== +
-The connotation of 听天由命 depends heavily on the context. It is not always positive. +
-  * **Positive/Neutral Connotation:** Used to express wisdom and peace of mind after exhausting all options. It shows a lack of anxiety about uncontrollable outcomes. This is its most classical and respected usage. For example, a doctor might say this after a very complex surgery. +
-  * **Negative Connotation:** It can be used to criticize someone for being passive, lazy, or giving up too easily. If a student fails a test and says, "Oh well, 听天由命," their parents might scold them for not studying hard enough. In this sense, it means being fatalistic without putting in the necessary effort first. The ideal is expressed in the longer saying: **尽人事，听天命 (jìn rén shì, tīng tiān mìng)** - "Do your best (human affairs), then listen to Heaven's decree." +
-===== Example Sentences ===== +
-  * **Example 1:** +
-    * 我们已经尽力了，现在只能**听天由命**了。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒmen yǐjīng jìnlì le, xiànzài zhǐ néng **tīng tiān yóu mìng** le. +
-    * English: We've already done our best; now we can only leave it to fate. +
-    * Analysis: This is the classic, neutral usage. It's said after great effort has been expended, expressing acceptance of the final, uncontrollable outcome. +
-  * **Example 2:** +
-    * 面对公司的财务危机，他没有选择放弃，而是拒绝**听天由命**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Miànduì gōngsī de cáiwù wēijī, tā méiyǒu xuǎnzé fàngqì, érshì jùjué **tīng tiān yóu mìng**. +
-    * English: Facing the company's financial crisis, he didn't choose to give up, but rather refused to just resign himself to fate. +
-    * Analysis: Here, 听天由命 is framed as a negative (giving up). The sentence praises the subject for his proactivity. +
-  * **Example 3:** +
-    * 手术很成功，但病人能否完全康复，还要**听天由命**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Shǒushù hěn chénggōng, dàn bìngrén néngfǒu wánquán kāngfù, hái yào **tīng tiān yóu mìng**. +
-    * English: The surgery was successful, but whether the patient can fully recover is still up to fate. +
-    * Analysis: A common context in medical situations, where human skill can only go so far and the rest depends on the patient's body and perhaps a bit of luck. +
-  * **Example 4:** +
-    * 古代的农民基本上是**听天由命**，因为天气决定了一切。 +
-    * Pinyin: Gǔdài de nóngmín jīběnshang shì **tīng tiān yóu mìng**, yīnwèi tiānqì juédìngle yīqiè. +
-    * English: Farmers in ancient times basically had to resign themselves to fate, because the weather determined everything. +
-    * Analysis: This example highlights a situation of genuine helplessness, where external forces (weather) are truly in control. +
-  * **Example 5:** +
-    * 你不能什么都不做，就想着**听天由命**！你得自己去争取！ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ bùnéng shénme dōu bù zuò, jiù xiǎngzhe **tīng tiān yóu mìng**! Nǐ děi zìjǐ qù zhēngqǔ! +
-    * English: You can't do nothing and just expect to leave it to fate! You have to fight for it yourself! +
-    * Analysis: A clear example of the negative connotation, used as a criticism for laziness or passivity. +
-  * **Example 6:** +
-    * 我已经向她表白了，她接不接受就**听天由命**吧。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ yǐjīng xiàng tā biǎobái le, tā jiē bù jiēshòu jiù **tīng tiān yóu mìng** ba. +
-    * English: I've already confessed my feelings to her; whether she accepts or not, I'll just leave it to fate. +
-    * Analysis: Used in a personal, romantic context. It shows the speaker has taken a risk and now must wait for another person's decision, which is out of their control. +
-  * **Example 7:** +
-    * 考试的最后一道题我实在不会，只能随便选一个，**听天由命**了。 +
-    * Pinyin: Kǎoshì de zuìhòu yī dào tí wǒ shízài bùhuì, zhǐ néng suíbiàn xuǎn yīgè, **tīng tiān yóu mìng** le. +
-    * English: I really didn't know the last question on the exam, so I could only pick one randomly and leave it to chance. +
-    * Analysis: A very common and slightly humorous use among students. It signifies giving up on a specific, small task after realizing it's impossible. +
-  * **Example 8:** +
-    * 在这个充满不确定性的市场里，许多小企业只能**听天由命**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zài zhège chōngmǎn bù quèdìng xìng de shìchǎng lǐ, xǔduō xiǎo qǐyè zhǐ néng **tīng tiān yóu mìng**. +
-    * English: In this market full of uncertainty, many small businesses can only resign themselves to fate. +
-    * Analysis: This describes a systemic issue where individual actors feel powerless against larger economic forces. +
-  * **Example 9:** +
-    * 他的人生态度就是**听天由命**，从不强求什么。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā de rénshēng tàidù jiùshì **tīng tiān yóu mìng**, cóng bù qiǎngqiú shénme. +
-    * English: His attitude towards life is just to let nature take its course; he never forces anything. +
-    * Analysis: Here, the idiom describes a person's entire life philosophy, framing it as a potentially calm and wise way of living. +
-  * **Example 10:** +
-    * 船在暴风雨中失去了动力，船员们除了祈祷，就只能**听天由命**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Chuán zài bàofēngyǔ zhōng shīqùle dònglì, chuányuánmen chúle qídǎo, jiù zhǐ néng **tīng tiān yóu mìng**. +
-    * English: The ship lost power in the storm; besides praying, the crew could only surrender to their fate. +
-    * Analysis: A dramatic example illustrating a life-or-death situation where human agency has been completely removed. +
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes ===== +
-  * **Mistake 1: Confusing it with Laziness.** The most common error is to think 听天由命 simply means "to give up." In its ideal sense, it's what you do //after// you've done everything you can. Using it as an excuse for inaction (e.g., "I'm not going to prepare for the interview, I'll just 听天由命") is a misuse of the term and will be viewed negatively. +
-  * **False Friend: "Go with the flow."** While related, "go with the flow" is much lighter. It usually applies to social plans or minor decisions ("Should we get pizza or tacos? I'll just go with the flow."). 听天由命 deals with weightier matters—career, health, destiny—and carries a much stronger sense of finality and fate. You "go with the flow" for dinner plans; you 听天由命 for a cancer diagnosis. +
-  * **Incorrect Usage Example:** +
-    * **Incorrect:** 明天的会议很重要，但我太累了，不想准备了，就**听天由命**吧。 (Míngtiān de huìyì hěn zhòngyào, dàn wǒ tài lèi le, bùxiǎng zhǔnbèi le, jiù tīng tiān yóu mìng ba.) +
-    * **Why it's wrong:** This is a clear case of using the idiom as an excuse for laziness. The speaker //can// still prepare but is //choosing// not to. This is not resigning to fate; it's abdicating responsibility. A native speaker would interpret this as irresponsible, not philosophical. +
-===== Related Terms and Concepts ===== +
-  * [[尽人事，听天命]] (jìn rén shì, tīng tiān mìng) - The full, ideal expression: "Exhaust human effort, then heed Heaven's decree." It clarifies that action must precede acceptance. +
-  * [[顺其自然]] (shùn qí zì rán) - Let nature take its course. A very close synonym, but often softer and more positive. It emphasizes aligning with a natural process rather than a divine "fate." +
-  * [[命运]] (mìngyùn) - Fate, Destiny. The core noun that 听天由命 is concerned with. +
-  * [[无可奈何]] (wú kě nài hé) - Having no way out; helpless. This describes the feeling or situation that often leads a person to a state of 听天由命. +
-  * [[谋事在人，成事在天]] (móu shì zài rén, chéng shì zài tiān) - "Man proposes, God disposes." A very similar proverb that separates human planning (谋事) from the final success (成事), which is attributed to Heaven. +
-  * [[破罐子破摔]] (pò guànzi pò shuāi) - Literally "to smash a cracked pot." A negative antonym. It means giving up in a destructive, self-sabotaging way because things are already bad. It's recklessness born from despair, not the calm acceptance of 听天由命.+