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-====== xiǎofèi: 小费 - Tip, Gratuity ====== +
-===== Quick Summary ===== +
-  * **Keywords:** 小费, xiaofei, tip in Chinese, gratuity in China, tipping in China, do you tip in China, how to give a tip in Chinese, Chinese service charge, Chinese for tip +
-  * **Summary:** 小费 (xiǎofèi) is the Chinese word for a "tip" or "gratuity." However, the culture of tipping in mainland China is vastly different from the West. As a general rule, tipping is not expected or required in most situations, including restaurants, taxis, and hotels. This page explores the meaning of 小费, the cultural reasons behind the no-tipping norm, and the specific, modern exceptions where giving a small tip is becoming more acceptable, especially for tour guides and in high-end, tourist-focused establishments. +
-===== Core Meaning ===== +
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** xiǎo fèi +
-  * **Part of Speech:** Noun +
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 4 +
-  * **Concise Definition:** A small sum of money given to a worker for a service performed; a tip or gratuity. +
-  * **In a Nutshell:** 小费 literally translates to "small fee." It's the money you voluntarily give to a service worker, like a waiter or bellhop, to thank them for good service. But be aware: while the word exists, the practice is not a standard part of Chinese culture. You should not assume you need to leave a tip. +
-===== Character Breakdown ===== +
-  * **小 (xiǎo):** This character means "small," "little," or "minor." It's one of the most fundamental characters, often depicted as a central hook with two small lines, like small items scattered. +
-  * **费 (fèi):** This character means "fee," "cost," or "expense." It's a combination of 弗 (a phonetic component) and 贝 (bèi), the character for "shell," which was used as currency in ancient China. So, it's intrinsically linked to money and payment. +
-When combined, **小费 (xiǎofèi)** creates the very literal and descriptive term "small fee," perfectly capturing the idea of a tip being a small, extra payment beyond the main cost. +
-===== Cultural Context and Significance ===== +
-Traditionally, tipping has not been a custom in China and was often viewed negatively. In a socialist context, it could be seen as a form of bribery or a practice that created an unequal relationship. There was also a sense of professional pride; a worker's salary was paid by their employer, and the price of a service was all-inclusive. Accepting a tip could imply that the worker was underpaid or needed charity, which could be seen as an insult. +
-This contrasts sharply with American culture, where tipping is an ingrained social and economic expectation, often forming the bulk of a service worker's income. In China, the listed price is the final price. There is no social pressure or obligation to pay more. +
-While globalization and an increase in foreign tourism have introduced the concept, the default mindset for most Chinese people in most situations is still **"we don't tip here."** Trying to tip can sometimes lead to confusion or polite refusal. +
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China ===== +
-The cardinal rule is: **when in doubt, don't tip.** However, the practice is slowly finding a place in very specific contexts. +
-  * **General Restaurants, Taxis, and Shops:** No tip is expected. Ever. A taxi driver will give you exact change and may be confused if you tell them to keep it. +
-  * **Tour Guides & Private Drivers:** This is the most common exception. For multi-day private tours, especially those catering to foreigners, a tip for the guide and driver is often appreciated and sometimes expected as a sign of gratitude for their hard work. +
-  * **High-End Hotels:** In 5-star international hotel chains (e.g., Marriott, Hyatt) in major cities like Shanghai or Beijing, you might consider tipping the bellhop who carries your bags (e.g., 10-20 RMB) or the concierge for exceptional service. It is still not mandatory. +
-  * **Food Delivery (外卖 - wàimài):** You do not tip delivery drivers. However, on the app, there is sometimes an option to give them a digital **[[红包]] (hóngbāo)** - a small "red envelope" gift. People might do this during extreme weather (typhoons, heavy snow) as a gesture of thanks, but it's a gift, not an expected tip. +
-  * **Service Charge (服务费 - fúwùfèi):** Be careful not to confuse 小费 with 服务费 (fúwùfèi). Many upscale restaurants and hotels will automatically add a 10-15% "service charge" to the bill. This is **not** a tip that goes directly to the staff; it is a mandatory fee kept by the establishment. If a service charge is on the bill, you absolutely should not leave an additional tip. +
-===== Example Sentences ===== +
-  * **Example 1:** +
-    * 在中国，我们一般不给**小费**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zài Zhōngguó, wǒmen yībān bù gěi **xiǎofèi**. +
-    * English: In China, we generally don't give tips. +
-    * Analysis: This is a key phrase to remember. "一般" (yībān) means "generally" or "normally," correctly reflecting that it's a rule with very few exceptions. +
-  * **Example 2:** +
-    * 我应该给导游多少**小费**？ +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ yīnggāi gěi dǎoyóu duōshǎo **xiǎofèi**? +
-    * English: How much of a tip should I give the tour guide? +
-    * Analysis: This is a practical question a tourist might ask. Notice the structure "给 (gěi) + [Person] + 小费 (xiǎofèi)" which means "to give a tip to [Person]". +
-  * **Example 3:** +
-    * 服务很好，我们留下一点**小费**吧。 +
-    * Pinyin: Fúwù hěn hǎo, wǒmen liúxià yīdiǎn **xiǎofèi** ba. +
-    * English: The service was great, let's leave a little tip. +
-    * Analysis: "留下" (liúxià) means "to leave behind." This is what you would say to your companion when deciding to leave some cash on the table. The "吧" (ba) particle makes it a suggestion. +
-  * **Example 4:** +
-    * 账单里包括**小费**了吗？ +
-    * Pinyin: Zhàngdān lǐ bāokuò **xiǎofèi** le ma? +
-    * English: Does the bill include the tip? +
-    * Analysis: This is a common but often mistaken question for a foreigner to ask. The correct term for an included charge would be "服务费" (fúwùfèi). A local would understand what you mean, though. +
-  * **Example 5:** +
-    * 不用给**小费**，谢谢！ +
-    * Pinyin: Búyòng gěi **xiǎofèi**, xièxie! +
-    * English: No need to give a tip, thank you! +
-    * Analysis: This is a very common and polite refusal you might hear from a service worker if you try to tip them. "不用" (búyòng) is a softer way of saying "don't." +
-  * **Example 6:** +
-    * 在美国，服务员的收入很多都来自**小费**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zài Měiguó, fúwùyuán de shōurù hěnduō dōu láizì **xiǎofèi**. +
-    * English: In the United States, a lot of a waiter's income comes from tips. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence is great for explaining the cultural difference. "来自" (láizì) means "to come from." +
-  * **Example 7:** +
-    * 他给了酒店的行李员二十块钱**小费**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā gěile jiǔdiàn de xíngliyuán èrshí kuài qián **xiǎofèi**. +
-    * English: He gave the hotel bellboy a 20 yuan tip. +
-    * Analysis: This demonstrates how to specify the amount. You can say the amount followed by "块钱 (kuài qián) 小费 (xiǎofèi)". +
-  * **Example 8:** +
-    * 如果你对司机很满意，可以给他一点**小费**表示感谢。 +
-    * Pinyin: Rúguǒ nǐ duì sījī hěn mǎnyì, kěyǐ gěi tā yīdiǎn **xiǎofèi** biǎoshì gǎnxiè. +
-    * English: If you are very satisfied with the driver, you can give him a small tip to express your thanks. +
-    * Analysis: This highlights the motivation for tipping when it *is* done: as a sign of satisfaction "满意 (mǎnyì)" and to express thanks "表示感谢 (biǎoshì gǎnxiè)". +
-  * **Example 9:** +
-    * 这家餐厅不收**小费**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zhè jiā cāntīng bù shōu **xiǎofèi**. +
-    * English: This restaurant doesn't accept tips. +
-    * Analysis: "收" (shōu) means "to receive" or "to accept." Some establishments might even have a sign stating this. +
-  * **Example 10:** +
-    * 除了导游，在中国大部分情况都不需要给**小费**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Chúle dǎoyóu, zài Zhōngguó dàbùfen qíngkuàng dōu bù xūyào gěi **xiǎofèi**. +
-    * English: Except for tour guides, you don't need to give a tip in most situations in China. +
-    * Analysis: "除了...都..." (chúle...dōu...) is a useful structure for "except for...all...". "大部分情况" (dàbùfen qíngkuàng) means "in most situations." This sentence neatly summarizes the modern rule. +
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes ===== +
-  * **Mistake: Assuming tipping is normal.** The biggest mistake is applying Western tipping habits in China. Trying to tip a taxi driver or a small restaurant owner will, at best, cause confusion and, at worst, be seen as slightly odd or even offensive. They may chase you down to return the money you "forgot." +
-  * **"False Friend": 小费 (xiǎofèi) vs. 服务费 (fúwùfèi).** +
-    * **小费 (xiǎofèi):** A voluntary tip given by the customer directly to the worker. It is rare. +
-    * **服务费 (fúwùfèi):** A mandatory "service charge" (usually 10-16%) added to the bill by the establishment (common in high-end hotels and restaurants). This money does **not** go directly to your server. It is part of the restaurant's revenue. If you see a 服务费 on your bill, there is absolutely no reason to add a 小费. +
-  * **Incorrect Usage Example:** +
-    * //A foreigner finishes a taxi ride in a second-tier city. The fare is 18 RMB. He gives the driver a 20 RMB note and says:// “不用找了!” (Búyòng zhǎo le! - "Keep the change!"). +
-    * //Why it's wrong:// The driver will most likely be confused, insist on giving the 2 RMB back, or think the foreigner doesn't understand Chinese currency. This interaction is awkward because tipping taxi drivers is not a custom. The polite and normal action is to wait for the exact change. +
-===== Related Terms and Concepts ===== +
-  * [[服务费]] (fúwùfèi) - Service charge. A mandatory fee added by an establishment, unlike the voluntary 小费. +
-  * [[打赏]] (dǎshǎng) - To reward or "tip," but used almost exclusively for digital content like live streams, online articles, or podcasts. This is the modern, digital evolution of tipping. +
-  * [[红包]] (hóngbāo) - Red envelope. A traditional monetary gift. Digitally, it can be used on apps like WeChat or food delivery platforms to give a small gift of appreciation, functioning like a tip. +
-  * [[导游]] (dǎoyóu) - Tour guide. One of the few professions where a 小费 from a foreign tour group is becoming common. +
-  * [[账单]] (zhàngdān) - The bill/check. What you review to see if a 服务费 (fúwùfèi) has already been included. +
-  * [[买单]] (mǎidān) - To pay the bill. (e.g., "服务员，买单!" - "Waiter, the check!"). +
-  * [[不用]] (búyòng) - "No need." A common and polite way to refuse a tip. +
-  * [[谢谢]] (xièxie) - Thank you. The best way to show appreciation in almost all service situations instead of giving a tip. +
-  * [[包括]] (bāokuò) - To include. Used to ask if a charge is included in the bill.+