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-====== fùmǔ: 父母 - Parents ====== +
-===== Quick Summary ===== +
-  * **Keywords:** fumu, fùmǔ, 父母, parents in Chinese, Chinese word for parents, mother and father in Chinese, Chinese family, filial piety, xiàoshùn, 孝顺, fùqīn, mǔqīn +
-  * **Summary:** Learn the essential Chinese word for "parents," **父母 (fùmǔ)**. This guide goes beyond a simple translation, exploring the deep cultural significance of parents in China, their connection to the core value of filial piety (孝, xiào), and how to use the term correctly in modern conversation. Discover the difference between formal and informal terms, and understand the profound respect embedded in this fundamental word. +
-===== Core Meaning ===== +
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** fùmǔ +
-  * **Part of Speech:** Noun +
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 2 +
-  * **Concise Definition:** A collective noun meaning "parents" (specifically, father and mother). +
-  * **In a Nutshell:** `父母` is the standard and most common way to say "parents" in Chinese. It's a compound word that literally combines "father" and "mother." While you wouldn't use it to address your parents directly, it's the go-to term when you are talking or writing about the parental unit in general, whether it's your own parents or someone else's. +
-===== Character Breakdown ===== +
-  * **父 (fù):** This character originally depicted a hand holding a stone axe, symbolizing the father's role as the authority figure, leader, and protector of the family. It means "father." +
-  * **母 (mǔ):** This character is a pictogram of a kneeling woman with two dots added to represent her breasts. It beautifully illustrates the mother's role as the nurturer and caregiver. It means "mother." +
-When combined, **父母 (fùmǔ)** literally translates to "father-mother," creating the single, inseparable concept of "parents." +
-===== Cultural Context and Significance ===== +
-In Chinese culture, the concept of **父母 (fùmǔ)** is far more than just a biological relationship; it's the bedrock of social structure and morality. This is primarily due to the influence of Confucianism and the central value of **孝 (xiào)**, or "filial piety." +
-**孝 (xiào)** dictates a profound, lifelong duty of respect, obedience, gratitude, and care towards one's parents. This includes: +
-  * Obeying their wishes (within reason). +
-  * Bringing honor, not shame, to the family name. +
-  * Caring for them physically and financially in their old age. +
-  * Continuing the family line. +
-**Comparison to Western Culture:** While love and respect for parents are universal values, the Western emphasis on individualism often leads to children becoming independent and "leaving the nest" at 18. In contrast, the Chinese bond with **父母** is one of deeper, lifelong interdependence. The expectation that adult children will support their parents, sometimes even by living with them, is a powerful social norm. The relationship is less about friendship between equals and more about a clearly defined hierarchy of respect and obligation owed to one's elders. +
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China ===== +
-`父母` is a versatile word used in both formal and informal contexts, but its primary function is for //referring// to parents, not //addressing// them. +
-  * **Formal/Written Contexts:** You will see `父母` in official documents, news articles, literature, and school forms. (e.g., "Parental consent is required.") +
-  * **Everyday Conversation:** It's very common to use `父母` when asking about or discussing someone else's parents. It's also used when talking about your own parents in a slightly more formal or general way. +
-  * **Informal Alternative:** When talking about their own parents casually, many people will say **我爸我妈 (wǒ bà wǒ mā)**, which literally means "my dad, my mom." This sounds more personal and colloquial than the more official-sounding `我的父母 (wǒ de fùmǔ)`. +
-===== Example Sentences ===== +
-  * **Example 1:** +
-    * 我的**父母**都住在上海。 +
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ de **fùmǔ** dōu zhù zài Shànghǎi. +
-    * English: My parents both live in Shanghai. +
-    * Analysis: A simple, neutral statement of fact. This is the most common and basic way to use the term. +
-  * **Example 2:** +
-    * 你需要得到**父母**的同意吗？ +
-    * Pinyin: Nǐ xūyào dédào **fùmǔ** de tóngyì ma? +
-    * English: Do you need to get your parents' permission? +
-    * Analysis: This sentence shows `父母` used in a question about parental authority, a common scenario. +
-  * **Example 3:** +
-    * 他的**父母**是老师。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā de **fùmǔ** shì lǎoshī. +
-    * English: His parents are teachers. +
-    * Analysis: A straightforward sentence used when talking about a third party's parents. +
-  * **Example 4:** +
-    * 孝顺**父母**是中华民族的传统美德。 +
-    * Pinyin: Xiàoshùn **fùmǔ** shì Zhōnghuá mínzú de chuántǒng měidé. +
-    * English: Being filial to one's parents is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence directly links `父母` to the cultural concept of filial piety (孝顺, xiàoshùn). It's a more formal, cultural statement. +
-  * **Example 5:** +
-    * 很多**父母**都希望自己的孩子能上好大学。 +
-    * Pinyin: Hěn duō **fùmǔ** dōu xīwàng zìjǐ de háizi néng shàng hǎo dàxué. +
-    * English: Many parents hope their children can get into a good university. +
-    * Analysis: Here, `父母` is used to talk about parents as a general group, reflecting on common societal expectations. +
-  * **Example 6:** +
-    * 毕业以后，他决定回家乡照顾年迈的**父母**。 +
-    * Pinyin: Bìyè yǐhòu, tā juédìng huí jiāxiāng zhàogù niánmài de **fùmǔ**. +
-    * English: After graduating, he decided to return to his hometown to take care of his elderly parents. +
-    * Analysis: This example highlights the cultural expectation of caring for aging parents. `年迈的父母 (niánmài de fùmǔ)` is a common phrase for "elderly parents." +
-  * **Example 7:** +
-    * 这次家长会，**父母**至少要来一位。 +
-    * Pinyin: Zhè cì jiāzhǎnghuì, **fùmǔ** zhìshǎo yào lái yí wèi. +
-    * English: For this parent-teacher conference, at least one of the parents must come. +
-    * Analysis: This shows a practical use in a school context. Note that [[家长]] (jiāzhǎng) is also often used here, but `父母` is perfectly clear. +
-  * **Example 8:** +
-    * 成为**父母**后，我才理解了他们的辛苦。 +
-    * Pinyin: Chéngwéi **fùmǔ** hòu, wǒ cái lǐjiě le tāmen de xīnkǔ. +
-    * English: Only after becoming a parent myself did I understand their hardships. +
-    * Analysis: `成为父母 (chéngwéi fùmǔ)` means "to become a parent/parents." This sentence expresses a common sentiment of empathy. +
-  * **Example 9:** +
-    * **父母**的爱是无私的。 +
-    * Pinyin: **Fùmǔ** de ài shì wúsī de. +
-    * English: Parental love is selfless. +
-    * Analysis: A classic, almost proverbial statement about the nature of parental love. +
-  * **Example 10:** +
-    * 他很少跟**父母**沟通，所以关系不太好。 +
-    * Pinyin: Tā hěn shǎo gēn **fùmǔ** gōutōng, suǒyǐ guānxì bú tài hǎo. +
-    * English: He rarely communicates with his parents, so their relationship isn't very good. +
-    * Analysis: This sentence uses `父母` to discuss the parent-child relationship (`关系`, guānxì) itself. +
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes ===== +
-  * **Don't use it as a form of address:** This is the most critical mistake for learners. You would never walk up to your parents and say "你好, 父母!" (Nǐ hǎo, fùmǔ!). It would sound robotic and strange. To address them, you must use **[[爸爸]] (bàba)** and **[[妈妈]] (māma)**. +
-  * **It's a collective noun:** `父母` strongly implies both parents, the "father-mother" unit. While people will understand you if you use it when referring to a single-parent household, it's more precise to use **[[父亲]] (fùqīn)** (father) or **[[母亲]] (mǔqīn)** (mother) in such cases, especially in writing. For school contexts, the word **[[家长]] (jiāzhǎng)**, meaning "guardian," is often a better choice as it's inclusive of single parents, grandparents, etc. +
-  * **`父母` vs. `我爸我妈`:** While `我的父母 (wǒ de fùmǔ)` is grammatically correct, native speakers often prefer the more colloquial and intimate **我爸我妈 (wǒ bà wǒ mā)** when casually talking about their own parents. Using `我的父母` can sound a bit more detached or formal. +
-===== Related Terms and Concepts ===== +
-  * **[[爸爸]] (bàba):** The common, informal word for "Dad" or "Papa." Used for both addressing and referring. +
-  * **[[妈妈]] (māma):** The common, informal word for "Mom" or "Mama." Used for both addressing and referring. +
-  * **[[父亲]] (fùqīn):** The formal, written word for "Father." +
-  * **[[母亲]] (mǔqīn):** The formal, written word for "Mother." +
-  * **[[家长]] (jiāzhǎng):** Means "head of the family" or "guardian." It's often used by schools to refer to the responsible adult for a student, regardless of their relation. +
-  * **[[孝顺]] (xiàoshùn):** A crucial concept; the verb/adjective for being a "filial" or "dutiful" child who respects and cares for their `父母`. +
-  * **[[子女]] (zǐnǚ):** "Children" or "offspring" (sons and daughters). This is the direct counterpart to `父母`. +
-  * **[[家人]] (jiārén):** "Family members." This is a broader term that includes `父母` as well as siblings, grandparents, etc. +
-  * **[[长辈]] (zhǎngbèi):** "Elders" or "older generation." `父母` are the most immediate and important `长辈` in a person's life.+