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-====== yíhàn: 遗憾 - Regret, Pity, Unfortunate ======
-===== Quick Summary =====
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-  * **Summary:** Learn the deep meaning of **遗憾 (yíhàn)**, a fundamental Chinese word used to express regret, pity, or a sense of loss. Unlike the English "regret," which often implies personal blame, `yíhàn` describes a gentle sorrow for things that couldn't be, often due to circumstances beyond one's control. This guide covers its cultural nuances, practical usage in daily conversation, and key differences from similar terms like `后悔 (hòuhuǐ)`, making it an essential resource for any Mandarin learner.
-===== Core Meaning =====
-  * **Pinyin (with tone marks):** yíhàn
-  * **Part of Speech:** Noun, Adjective
-  * **HSK Level:** HSK 4
-  * **Concise Definition:** A feeling of regret, pity, or sorrow over something that is lost, has not happened, or is imperfect.
-  * **In a Nutshell:** **遗憾 (yíhàn)** is the feeling of "what a shame" or "it's a pity." It's less about guilt for a mistake you made and more about a wistful sadness for a missed opportunity or an unfortunate outcome. Think of it as the sigh you let out when you hear a friend's wedding is on a day you can't make it, or when a beautiful vacation is cut short by rain. It's a gentle acknowledgment of life's imperfections.
-===== Character Breakdown =====
-  * **遗 (yí):** This character means "to leave behind," "to lose," or "to omit." It points to something that is gone, missing, or left unfinished.
-  * **憾 (hàn):** This character means "regret" or "remorse." The left side is the "heart" radical (忄), indicating it's an emotion. The right side (感) provides the sound and is related to the word for "to feel" (感觉 gǎnjué). So, `憾` is a strong "feeling of the heart."
-  * **Together, 遗憾 (yíhàn)** literally means "the feeling of regret (憾) over something left behind or lost (遗)." This beautifully captures the core concept of sorrow for what could have been but wasn't.
-===== Cultural Context and Significance =====
-  * In Chinese culture, **遗憾 (yíhàn)** is a common and deeply understood emotion. It reflects a worldview that acknowledges the existence of fate (命运 mìngyùn) and circumstances beyond personal control. Expressing `遗憾` is often a way of showing empathy and shared understanding of life's unavoidable disappointments.
-  * **Comparison to Western "Regret":** In American or Western culture, the phrase "No regrets!" is a popular mantra, emphasizing personal agency and the power to control one's own destiny. Regret is often seen as a negative feeling to be overcome, tied to personal failure. **遗憾 (yíhàn)**, in contrast, is less about personal failure and more about a philosophical acceptance of imperfection. It's not about blaming yourself; it's about acknowledging a sad reality. For example, an elderly person might look back on their life and say they have some `遗憾` (e.g., not traveling more), which is seen as a normal, reflective part of the human experience, not a sign of a failed life.
-===== Practical Usage in Modern China =====
-  * **遗憾** is extremely versatile and used in both formal and informal contexts.
-  * **Expressing Sympathy:** When someone shares bad news, a very common and polite response is "太遗憾了 (tài yíhàn le)" or "我感到很遗憾 (wǒ gǎndào hěn yíhàn)," which is similar to saying "I'm so sorry to hear that" or "That's such a shame."
-  * **Talking About Missed Opportunities:** It's frequently used to talk about things you wish you could have done but couldn't, like seeing a concert, meeting someone, or taking a job.
-  * **As a Noun:** It can be used as a noun meaning "a regret" or "a pity." For example, "人生没有遗憾是不完整的 (Rénshēng méiyǒu yíhàn shì bù wánzhěng de)" - "A life without any regrets is incomplete."
-  * **As an Adjective:** It's often used as a predicate adjective, meaning "to be regretful/unfortunate." For example, "他没来，真遗憾 (Tā méi lái, zhēn yíhàn)" - "He didn't come, it's truly a pity."
-===== Example Sentences =====
-  * **Example 1:**
-    * 没能去看你的毕业典礼，我感到非常**遗憾**。
-    * Pinyin: Méi néng qù kàn nǐ de bìyè diǎnlǐ, wǒ gǎndào fēicháng **yíhàn**.
-    * English: I feel very regretful that I couldn't go see your graduation ceremony.
-    * Analysis: This is a classic use of `遗憾`. The speaker isn't at fault; circumstances prevented them from going. It expresses sincere sorrow and empathy.
-  * **Example 2:**
-    * 他最大的**遗憾**就是没有对父母更好一些。
-    * Pinyin: Tā zuìdà de **yíhàn** jiùshì méiyǒu duì fùmǔ gèng hǎo yīxiē.
-    * English: His biggest regret is not having been better to his parents.
-    * Analysis: Here, `遗憾` is used as a noun ("a regret"). It describes a deep, life-long sorrow over a past omission.
-  * **Example 3:**
-    * 听到这个消息，我们都觉得很**遗憾**。
-    * Pinyin: Tīngdào zhège xiāoxī, wǒmen dōu juédé hěn **yíhàn**.
-    * English: Hearing this news, we all felt it was very unfortunate.
-    * Analysis: A common way to express sympathy or condolences for a situation that affects others. It's polite and shows you care.
-  * **Example 4:**
-    * 这次比赛我们输了，虽然有点**遗憾**，但我们尽力了。
-    * Pinyin: Zhècì bǐsài wǒmen shūle, suīrán yǒudiǎn **yíhàn**, dàn wǒmen jìnlìle.
-    * English: We lost this match; although it's a bit of a pity, we did our best.
-    * Analysis: This shows the acceptance aspect of `遗憾`. It acknowledges the disappointment without self-blame, focusing instead on the effort.
-  * **Example 5:**
-    * **遗憾**的是，我们最终还是分手了。
-    * Pinyin: **Yíhàn** de shì, wǒmen zuìzhōng háishì fēnshǒule.
-    * English: The unfortunate thing is, we still broke up in the end.
-    * Analysis: The structure "遗憾的是 (yíhàn de shì)..." is a very common way to start a sentence, meaning "Unfortunately..." or "It's a pity that...".
-  * **Example 6:**
-    * 为了不留下**遗憾**，你现在就应该去追求你的梦想。
-    * Pinyin: Wèile bù liúxià **yíhàn**, nǐ xiànzài jiù yīnggāi qù zhuīqiú nǐ de mèngxiǎng.
-    * English: In order not to leave behind any regrets, you should go pursue your dreams right now.
-    * Analysis: This sentence uses `遗憾` as a motivation. It frames "regret" as something to be avoided by taking action now.
-  * **Example 7:**
-    * 他英年早逝，真是我们国家的一大**遗憾**。
-    * Pinyin: Tā yīngniánzǎoshì, zhēnshi wǒmen guójiā de yī dà **yíhàn**.
-    * English: His early death was truly a great loss/pity for our country.
-    * Analysis: `遗憾` can be used on a large, formal scale to describe a significant loss for a community or nation.
-  * **Example 8:**
-    * 我很**遗憾**地通知您，您的申请未被批准。
-    * Pinyin: Wǒ hěn **yíhàn** de tōngzhī nín, nín de shēnqǐng wèi bèi pīzhǔn.
-    * English: I regret to inform you that your application has not been approved.
-    * Analysis: This is a very common and formal phrase used in official communications (like rejection letters). It's a polite way to deliver bad news.
-  * **Example 9:**
-    * 错过那班火车是他旅行中唯一的**遗憾**。
-    * Pinyin: Cuòguò nà bān huǒchē shì tā lǚxíng zhōng wéiyī de **yíhàn**.
-    * English: Missing that train was the only regret of his trip.
-    * Analysis: This clearly connects the action of "missing" (错过 cuòguò) with the resulting feeling of `遗憾`.
-  * **Example 10:**
-    * 人生难免有**遗憾**。
-    * Pinyin: Rénshēng nánmiǎn yǒu **yíhàn**.
-    * English: Regrets are unavoidable in life.
-    * Analysis: A philosophical and common saying that encapsulates the cultural acceptance of `遗憾` as a natural part of the human condition.
-===== Nuances and Common Mistakes =====
-  * **The Golden Rule: `遗憾 (yíhàn)` vs. `后悔 (hòuhuǐ)`**
-    * This is the most common point of confusion for learners.
-    * **`后悔 (hòuhuǐ)`**: Use this when you regret an **action you took**. It implies personal responsibility and fault. You wish you could go back and undo what you did. It's about guilt.
-    * **`遗憾 (yíhàn)`**: Use this when you regret something that **didn't happen** or an outcome that was **out of your control**. It's about sorrow and pity, not guilt.
-  * **Common Mistake Example:**
-    * **Incorrect:** 我很**遗憾**吃了这么多冰淇淋。(Wǒ hěn yíhàn chīle zhème duō bīngqílín.)
-    * **Why it's wrong:** Eating the ice cream was your own action. You are blaming yourself for it. This sounds like you are saying, "It's a tragedy of fate that I ate so much ice cream."
-    * **Correct:** 我很**后悔**吃了这么多冰淇淋。(Wǒ hěn hòuhuǐ chīle zhème duō bīngqílín.) - "I regret eating so much ice cream."
-  * **False Friend: "Regret"**
-    * While `遗憾` is often translated as "regret," remember that it lacks the strong sense of personal blame found in the English word. Often, a better translation is "it's a pity," "it's a shame," or "it's unfortunate."
-===== Related Terms and Concepts =====
-  * `[[后悔]] (hòuhuǐ)` - A crucial contrast. `后悔` is regret over a past action you are responsible for (e.g., "I regret saying that"). `遗憾` is sorrow over a situation (e.g., "It's a shame you couldn't come").
-  * `[[可惜]] (kěxī)` - A close synonym, meaning "it's a pity" or "what a shame." `可惜` is often used for smaller, everyday things, while `遗憾` can feel deeper, more formal, or more philosophical.
-  * `[[错过]] (cuòguò)` - To miss (an opportunity, a bus, a person). This is often the *cause* of the feeling of `遗憾`. You feel `遗憾` because you `错过` the chance.
-  * `[[抱歉]] (bàoqiàn)` - To be sorry, to feel apologetic. Use this to apologize for something you did, like being late. It's about taking responsibility, whereas `遗憾` is about lamenting a situation.
-  * `[[无奈]] (wúnài)` - Helpless; having no choice. This feeling of powerlessness is often at the root of `遗憾`.
-  * `[[惋惜]] (wǎnxī)` - To lament; to feel sorry for. A more formal and literary synonym for `遗憾`, often used to express sorrow over someone's death or the loss of something valuable.
-  * `[[命运]] (mìngyùn)` - Fate; destiny. The concept of `遗憾` is culturally tied to the idea that some things in life are determined by `命运` and are outside of our control.